| A few helpful hints |
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| There are things that I have learned over time that I feel might be of help to those of you who are just getting started in this wonderful journey of self discovery. It is my hope that you find them useful. If you have any questions, please feel free to email me at whynotb124u@hotmail.com. I will try my best to answer them for you. |
| Clothing If you are new to this then odds are you are at a loss about your size, Your best bet is to go to a major online retailer, such as JCPenney.com, they have size charts available that will show you how and where to measure and how to translate those measurements into women's sizes. That being said, I need to mention that women's clothing sizes are not absolute, Sizes vary according to manufacture, so just because you were a size 16 in one dress, that doesn't mean the next size 16 dress will fit the same. I would suggest that until you are comfortable in knowing your size and what style of clothing you look best in, that you try to shop at some thrift stores. They have very nice clothing at very affordable prices. That way you can experiment without going broke. If you are uncomfortable shopping in your town, then I suggest going to the next town over, that way you don't have to worry about running into someone you know. Also for those of you who have pics, then carry a pictures of yourself, I have found that most people have a very hard time visualizing you in a dress, but if you show them a picture of you in full dress, they have a different attitude and become so much more helpful. If you do buy clothes at a retail store and are nervous about it, just stop by the greeting cards and get a romantic birthday card, that way you can just say it's a present for your wife/girlfriend. I have noticed from meeting so many wonderful girls on their first night or two out on the town that the vast majority of us lean toward black. We all do it, but I would recommend getting a variety of colors, that way when you take some pics, they don't all look alike :). |
| Makeup I have made a complete page devoted to this topic. Please click here to see it. |
| How to Create Cleavage I have finally made a page to show how I create cleavage. To see it click here. |
| Tips to hide your stash To hide your make-up I would suggest buying yourself a fishing tacklebox, it comes with seperate compartments and has a place for a lock, perfect for hiding in your garage. Also a medium sized toolbox with a lift out top compartment works great for hiding your clothes and they also come with a latch for a lock. |
| If your wife finds out If your wife discovers your secret by all means, be honest!!! She knows you better than anyone and she can tell when you are lying. Let her get mad, it's a natural response. Let her ask questions! Be honest with her about your feelings, you will not gain the acceptance you long for if you base it on lies. Answer all her questions as openly and honestly as you can, if you don't know the answer, the two of you sit down at the computer and try to find the answer together. There are plenty of useful sites out there to provide the answers you need. If you are lucky enough to have a wife that is willing to be involved with your dressing, let her know how much you appreciate it, let her be a part of it, don't let it be all about you, if she is not enjoying the experience then she will come to resent it. Also make sure she has time with the man she married, take her out, fix her a special dinner, anything to show her the man she loves is still there and still loves her. |
| Posing for pictures !!!!!NEW!!!!! When you get ready to take some pictures there are a few very simple rules to keep in mind and if you follow them, you will be much happier with the results. 1. SMILE!!!!! It's very simple but so many girls don't do it! A wide toothy smile will help you look so much more attractive! 2. Never look straight into the camera! It's only natural to want to look directly into the camera but a straight forward shot really emphasizes make attributes! If you ever so slightly turn your head to the left or right will make a world of difference! 3. POSE!! I've seen alot of pictures where girls just stand in front of the camera with their arms straight down at their side with their shoulders slumped. Put a hand on your hip! arch your back! Stick out that chest you are so proud of! Put one foot out slightly in front of the other! Try it and see how much more feminine you look! |
If you plan on going out in public !!!!!NEW!!!!! If you have plans of going out for the first time please choose your clothing carefully. Choice of clothes will get you read as much as anything! Next time you go to the mall watch the women. How they act, what they wear, etc... You will notice that not very many if any are wearing actual dresses. If they aren't in pants then they are wearing a skirt/blouse combo. You will also notice that the vast majority are concentrating on shopping, just going from store to store, talking with their friends if they are with someone. Very very few are looking around to see if anyone is noticing them. Attitude is everything!!!!! If you act like you are a woman then people will think you are a woman! People see what they want to see. If you are dressed as a woman, look like a woman and act like a woman then people will automatically think you are a woman. Yes, they might wonder, but if you hold your head up, keep a smile on your face and act like you belong then the doubt will pass and they wont give you a second thought! |
| Well, that's it for now, I will try to update this page as ideas come to me that I feel will be of help. Again, If you have any questions, please feel free to drop me a line. HUGS!!! |